Alcohol Free Zone!

As you may know - I am turning 50 this year and I am dreaming up ways to be a better me.  I quit drinking awhile back for a pretty long time.  I lost all this weight, my skin was better , and I had way more energy!!!  then I started back again.  So with that being said - I really want to live my next 50 years alcohol free.    My intention is to be a fun dancing alcohol free pirate!!! sooooo in order for me to be more active successful at alcohol free life ......... 

Jake & I have decided that we need to add events that are alcohol free. It may be weird to come to a Westfall party without wine - lol, but - we still will dance, (especially to Walton Stout) be silly, play "Screw Your Neighbor, Huh? da da da!" and energy will be way more awesome!!   Adele said - we could make fizzy fruit drinks and RED BULL.   (which has less caffeine then coffee - who knew)   BVI will be a totally difference experience - but way excited about it!!!  

alcohol free - without the extra calories, and occasional headache.   ;)    Jake and I want to push fun!!!

Anthony Hopkins speaks in below video that I liked the best ...   "no regrets for his personal demons for it made him who he is today! "    copy and paste the below

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wEECu6E0jBo

below is article on celebrities and their experiences with alcohol

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/10/17/celebrities-sober-straight-edge_n_4115017.html

 David Beckham, Tyra Banks, Colin Farrel, Mathew Perry, Jennifer Lopez, Tim Mcgraw, Ben Afleck, and Tammy Westfall ;)  

great video from Craig Furgeson he spoke funny things bout his journey - 

  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kI-BhQGwDO8

One year I went without meat and that was ok, so let's take baby steps - Easter 2015 - I will do a check to see how life is and if I miss it.    So I hope you support me in my new lifestyle!!!!       And yes when you see me dancing it will be on Red Bull or some fizzy drink Adele makes up!!  bahahahaha , however still in a short skirt and hot pink!!!!!

misdeeds - cry for help .....

I was recently told of an African tribe that does the most beautiful thing.
When someone does something hurtful and wrong, they take the person to the center of town, and the entire tribe comes and surrounds him. For two days they’ll tell the man every good thing he has ever done.

The tribe believes that every human being comes into the world as GOOD, each of us desiring safety, love, peace, happiness.

But sometimes in the pursuit of those things people make mistakes. The community sees misdeeds as a cry for help.

They band together for the sake of their fellow man to hold him up, to reconnect him with his true Nature, to remind him who he really is, until he fully remembers the truth from which he'd temporarily been disconnected: "I AM GOOD".

JOY - J-esus, Serving O-thers, Y-ourself

“God did not give us a spirit of timidity but a spirit of power and love
and self-control. - powerful loving spirit; God has given
us the ability to control our thoughts and feelings." From Positive Daily Inspiration Choose JOY! J-ESUS - Serving O-THERS - and putting Y-OURSELF Last!!! Make it a super great day!!

fight or flight

I learned that we can flight or fight or do nothing .. but the best thing to do - is to actively choose love, and say what you mean, do what you say, and trust . And be honest - and, know this is just a "life" test ... like the noise on your radio... don't ignore , get mad or run or lie, but deal with it. People are more understanding/loving then we think. We should give more chances and not ever give up on our friends and family for they are all are truly all here from God . 

wear more glitter

Good Morning!! Have a fabulous day , and when there is a choice - use more glitter - wear more PINK!! . Walk up to negativity and drown it with glitter!! If your color brings you down - change it! Ain't no body got time for that!!

promise yourself - great monday start

"Promise Yourself

To be so strong that nothing
can disturb your peace of mind.
To talk health, happiness, and prosperity
to every person you meet.

To make all your friends feel
that there is something in them
To look at the sunny side of everything
and make your optimism come true.

To think only the best, to work only for the best,
and to expect only the best.
To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others
as you are about your own.

To forget the mistakes of the past
and press on to the greater achievements of the future.
To wear a cheerful countenance at all times
and give every living creature you meet a smile.

To give so much time to the improvement of yourself
that you have no time to criticize others.
To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear,
and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of yourself and to proclaim this fact to the world,
not in loud words but great deeds.
To live in faith that the whole world is on your side
so long as you are true to the best that is in you."
― Christian D. Larson, Your Forces and How to Use Them

TRY - UMPH God is the Umph!!!!!! Try God!

Try, and as you try, God will add the “umph” and you will succeed.
We must take the first step and then God will light our way.
“The strong survive, but the courageous triumph.” Michael Scott